She is one of my respect n beloved ah yi.
She has always been helping us since I was young. Really appreciate her good heart.
Before she pass away, my mom has been taking care of her for the pass few weeks. Last night when I go to the wake . Seeing the photo of my ah yi n the coffin, sadness jus overflow my eyes n uncontrollable flow out.
Today was the farewell for her.
Memories is the killer , once I start recalling how she use to treat us, her laugh her action , it jus make me feel how bad that I have lost this respectable ah yi.
But it really show me a big difference from a hooligan family n respect family can react.
Always when I c my dad side relative any of the family pass on, on the very last day of the funeral, one or two ppl will sit/ knee beside the coffin n cry out loud .
Really couldnt understand their sadness
Cos between families we have not been contacting for years. Sudden death of a family member the cousin can cry until like is the lost of husband is really such a fake scene.
But today what I saw, is a peaceful funeral. None of them cry fake, all r real sadness. Though we are sad for the away of ah yi. But we understand she left for a better place. A better place without pain, trouble and jus left earlier than us to meet my dad n sis.
I salute to my ah yi, she teaches her children well. Successful n educate!
This is the different of life.
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