30 more minutes
and it will come to an end of Yr 2008
I am currently alone in front of the computer updating this blog..
I have been struggling the whole day not to throw temper to my Dear Dear.. and thinking should I go out to enjoy this countdown celebration.. I tot I be able to sleep alone without Dear Dear as I am already so tired.. but I guess.. I am wrong.. though I am so tired.. but so use to Dear by my side.. I just dun feel like going to bed or even falling into sleep..
Did I ever tell him.. everytime without him by my side.. I cannot really sleep well.. I will always be half asleep and waiting for him to come back..

Since there is so much time I have to spend till 3am in the morning.. I went online in search of the noodle & bao jokes which I have been telling him super funny..


　某天面条与肉包因为细故而发生争执，双方便大打出手，但是肉包因为太肉脚，被面条打得落花流水，於是在负伤离去时，对面条撂下一句狠话：“好胆别走，我去叫伙伴来教训你。”
　 　肉包就跑去约了水煎包、馒头、红豆面包等，准备要去找面条理论。他们在半路上遇到了泡面，肉包他们於围住了泡面给他毒打一顿，泡面不分青红皂白被打了一 顿後，大声的问肉包为何要打他，肉包回答：“死面条，别以为你烫了头发，我就不认得你了？”之後，泡面带著满身的伤跑去找面条大哥哭诉，面条也不甘示弱， 立刻带了一帮面面兄弟：米粉、冬粉、乌龙面和日本荞面去找肉包报仇。路上遇到了刚看完电影出来的小笼包，当下便把他毒打一顿，小笼包问他们为何打他？泡面 回答：“烂肉包，别以为你装可爱，我就认不出你来。”
　　小笼包在被打之後，越想越不爽，於是就跑去通知包子弟兄们，众包子为了替小笼包报不平， 每个人手拿家伙要去给他们好看。可是在路上遇到了炸酱面，小笼包立刻要冲上去准备挥拳，不料却被众包子们阻止，小笼包被大伙们脱离，很肚烂的问为何要放过 他？大家异口同声地说：“都还没打他呢，他就已经吓得拉了一裤子，再打下去他不就挂了。”
　　话说泡面在海扁完小笼包後越战越勇，想来个续摊，便 再次夥同面面家族们再去找小笼包；没想到在路上遇到了割包，“哗”泡面在狂吼一声便发疯似的手脚齐飞，其他的面面把泡面拉开来问说：“你干嘛这麽生气 呀？”泡面悻悻然地说：“你看他那个 死样子，装可爱就算了，还给我头发中分，装江口洋介耍酷。”
　　话说包子家族的小笼包被误打後心里越想越不 甘心，没事居然被平白无故被打了一顿，於是又找了一堆包子族要去报仇，结果在路上看到科学面，马上害怕地躲了起来，因为科学面身穿防弹衣，小笼包不敢去招 惹，在遁逃的途中遇到了银丝卷，他想把在被窝里睡觉的面条脱回去当人质，於是便把银丝卷带回去严刑逼供，结果被包子族的长老 K了一顿：“死孩子，那个不是面条ㄚ，他是我们派去卧底的包子ㄚ。”
　　由於面面族跟包子族积怨已深，两方人马常常看不顺眼当街就互殴一场。某天面面族在路上闲晃，看见落单的叉烧包，仇人相见分外眼红，想起泡面等人的恩怨，二话不说，便把叉烧包狠狠地打了一顿，面条边打边嚷：“给我用力打，你看这个满嘴槟榔汁的讨厌鬼。”
　　可怜的叉烧包头破血流的带著满身的伤去找肉包求救，眼看双方火并的战情一触即发，全国的人纷纷躲避，只见刚喝完洋墨水回国的薯条悠闲的在压马路，一帮包子二话不说，霹哩啪啦将薯条狠狠的揍了一顿，临走肉包还补踹了两脚说：“打了人还敢穿得金光闪闪的逛街！欠扁！”

Isn't it funny..
Sorry to those who cannot really read traditional chinese.. but I am willing to explain when you ask me.. then I will know who is really reading my blog.. I guess not much though.. ha ha

New Year Resolution

Here goes:
1. Get fatter (guess lots of ger will kill me)
But I dun wanna get too fat.. just abit more to be able to wear those nice clothes
2. Get a better job (if I can)
Recently not that happy with my workplace.. anyway.. shh keep inside my heart.. and ganna inner injure.. just hope everything be over soon
3. Save more more $$
so that I can buy nice nice stuff.. and renovate my house..
4. Own a secondhand car with Dar dar
5. Sell/ Marry myself off to Dear.. haha

A friend of mine forward me this email.. which I find it very meaningful and shall post it up here

父母永遠只有一個


_____




媳婦說：

「 煮淡一點妳就嫌沒有味，現在煮鹹一點妳卻說咽不下，

妳究竟想怎麼樣 ？」

母親一見兒子回來，二話不說便把飯菜往咀裡送。

她怒瞪他一眼。

他試了一口，馬上吐出來，

兒子說：「 我不是說過了嗎，媽有病不能吃太鹹！」

「 那好！媽是你的，以後由你來煮！」

媳婦怒氣沖沖地回房。



兒子無奈地輕嘆一聲，然後對母親說：

「 媽，別吃了，我去煮個麵給妳。」

「 仔，你是不是有話想跟媽說，是就說好了，別憋在心裡！

「 媽，公司下個月升我職，我會很忙，

至於老婆，她說很想出來工作，所以 ....」

母親馬上意識到兒子的意思：

「 仔，不要送媽去老人院。」

聲音似乎在哀求。

兒子沉默片刻，他是在尋找更好的理由。



「 媽，其實老人院並沒有甚麼不好，

妳知道老婆一但工作，

一定沒有時間好好服侍妳。

老人院有吃有住有人服侍照顧，不是比在家裡好得多嗎？」

「可是，阿財叔他 ....」



洗了澡，草草吃了一碗速食麵，兒子便到書房去。

他茫然地佇立於窗前，有些猶豫不決。

母親年輕便守寡，含辛茹苦將他撫養成人，供他出國讀書。

但她從不用年輕時的犧牲當作要脅他孝順的籌碼，

反而是妻子以婚姻要脅他！

真的要讓母親住老人院嗎？

仔問自己，他有些不忍。



「 可以陪你下半世的人是你老婆，難道是你媽嗎？」



阿財叔的兒子總是這樣提醒他

「 你媽都這麼老了，好命的話可以活多幾年，

為何不趁這幾年好好孝順她呢？

樹欲靜而風不息，子欲養而親不在啊 ！」

親戚總是這樣勸他。

兒子不敢再想下去，深怕自己真的會改變初衷。



夕晚，太陽收斂起灼熱的金光，躲在山後憩息。

一間建在郊外山崗的一座貴族老人院。



是的，錢用得越多，兒子才心安理得。

當兒子領著母親步入大廳時，

嶄新的電視機，42吋的螢幕正播放著一部喜劇，

但觀眾一點笑聲也沒有。



幾個衣著一樣，髮型一樣的老嫗歪歪斜斜地坐在梳化上，

神情呆滯而有一個老人在自言自語，

有個正緩緩彎下腰，想去撿掉在地上的一塊餅乾吃。

兒子知道母親喜歡光亮，

所以為她選了一間陽光充足的房間。

從窗口望出去，樹蔭下，一片芳草如茵。

幾名護士推著坐在輪椅的老者在夕陽下散步，

四周悄然寂靜得令人心酸。

縱是夕陽無限好，畢竟已到了黃昏，他心中低低嘆息。



「 媽，我........我要走了 ！」

母親只能點頭。

他走時，母親頻頻揮手，

她張著沒有牙的嘴，

蒼白乾燥的咀唇在囁嚅著，一副欲語還休的樣子。

兒子這才注意到母親銀灰色的頭髮，

深陷的眼窩以及打著細紋臉。

母親，真的老了！



他霍然記起一則兒時舊事。

那年他才6歲，母親有事回鄉，不便攜他同行，

於是把他寄住在阿財叔家幾天。

母親臨走時，

他驚恐地抱著母親的腿傷心大聲號哭道：

「 媽媽不要丟下我！媽媽不要走！」



最後母親沒有丟下他。

他連忙離開房間，順手把門關上，不敢回頭，

深恐那記憶像鬼魅似地追纏而來。



他回到家，

妻子與岳母正瘋狂的把母親房裡的一切扔個不亦樂乎。

身高3呎的獎杯──

那是他小學作文比賽「我的母親」第1名的勝利品！

華英字典──

那是母親整個月省吃省用所買給他的第一份生日禮物！

還有母親臨睡前要擦的風濕油，

沒有為她擦，帶去老人院又有甚麼意義呢？



「 夠了，別再扔了！」兒子怒吼道。

﹝這麼多垃圾，不把它扔掉，怎麼放得下我的東西﹞。

岳母沒好氣地說。



「 就是嘛！你趕快把你媽那張爛床給抬出去，

我明天要為我媽添張新的 ！」



一堆童年的照片展現在兒子眼前，

那是母親帶他到動物園和遊樂園拍的照片。



「 它們是我媽的財產，一樣也不能丟！」



「 你這算甚態度？對我媽這麼大聲，我要你向我媽道歉！」



「 我娶妳就要愛妳的母親，

為甚麼妳嫁給我就不能愛我的母親？ 」



雨後的黑夜分外冷寂，街道蕭瑟，行人車輛格外稀少。

一輛寶馬在路上飛馳，頻頻闖紅燈，陷黃格，

呼一聲又飛馳而過。

那輛轎車一路奔往山崗上的那間老人院，

停車直奔上樓，推開母親臥房的門。

他幽靈似地站著，母親正撫摸著風濕痛的雙腿低泣。

她見到兒子手中正拿著那瓶風濕油，

顯然感到安慰的說：

「 媽忘了帶，幸好你拿來！ 」

他走到母親身邊，跪了下來。



「 很晚了，媽自己擦可以了，你明天還要上班，回去吧！」



他囁嚅片刻，終於忍不住啜泣道 ：

「媽，對不起，請原諒我！我們回家去吧 ！」



∼∼後語∼∼



隨著自己愈長大，

看著父母親臉龐從年輕變憔悴，

頭髮從烏絲變白髮,動作從迅捷變緩慢，多心疼！



父母親總是將最好、最寶貴的留給我們，

像蠟燭不停的燃燒自己，照亮孩子！

而我呢？

有沒有騰出一個空間給我的父母，

或者只是在當我需要停泊岸時，

才會想起他們……

其實父母親要的真的不多，

只是一句隨意的問候：爸、媽，你們今天好嗎？」

隨意買的宵夜，煮一頓再普通不過的晚餐，

睡前幫他們盖盖被子，

天冷幫他們添衣服、戴手套……

都能讓他們高興溫馨很久。



有時，我常在想：我希望我的子女以後如何對我。

那現在，我有沒有如此對待我的父母？

我相信，人是環環相扣的；

現在，你如何對待你的父母；

以後，你的子女就如何待你。



朋友，人世間最難報的就是父母恩，

願我們都能：以反哺之心奉敬父母，以恩之心孝順父母！



∼共勉之∼

生命不要求我們成為最好的，只要求我們作最大的努力！

老人安養院牆上發現的一篇文章

孩子！當你還很小的時候，

我花了很多時間，教你慢慢用湯匙、用筷子吃東西。

教你繫鞋帶、扣扣子、溜滑梯、教你穿衣服、梳頭髮、擰鼻涕。

這些和你在一起的點點滴滴，是多麼的令我懷念不已。

所以，當我想不起來，接不上話時，

請給我一點時間，等我一下，

讓我再想一想……極可能最後連要說什麼，我也一併忘記。

孩子！

你忘記我們練習了好幾百回，

才學會的第一首娃娃歌嗎？

是否還記得每天總要我絞盡腦汁，

去回答不知道你從哪裡冒出來的嗎？

所以，當我重覆又重覆說著老掉牙的故事，

哼著我孩提時代的兒歌時，體諒我。

讓我繼續沉醉在這些回憶中吧！

切望你，也能陪著我閒話家常吧！

孩子，現在我常忘了扣扣子、繫鞋帶。

吃飯時，會弄髒衣服，梳頭髮時手還會不停的抖，

不要催促我，要對我多一點耐心和溫柔，

只要有你在一起，就會有很多的溫暖湧上心頭。

孩子！如今，我的腳站也站不穩，走也走不動。

所以，請你緊緊的握著我的手，陪著我，慢慢的。

就像當年一樣，我帶著你一步一步地走。

若為人子女也不懂得如何體諒他們，

那他們便只能於痛苦中渡過餘生，黑暗中逝去....



請把此文章轉發給您的朋友，

讓他們知道家人才是最重要的。

愛情可以重新再找尋，但父母一生卻只有一個，

要珍惜、珍重

Lots of times we really tend to neglect our parents as due to work, relationship and friendship.. it is high time we should reflect on ourselves and bond on our relationship with our parent.. while reading this email.. I almost cry out.. it is really very touching.. parent see us grow up, take care of us when we are young, and teaches us whatever things we need to be learn .. but when we began to grow up , we began to find them naggy , less sticky to them and even.. try to stay a distance to them ..
No matter what they might have done in the past.. it has all past.. it is them who gave us this life, a chance to see this world.. life contains forgive and forget..why not we start with our parents..

Spa treat by hubby at The Spa @ Aranda

Had made an appointment with Dear to enjoy spa massage today at Aranda Country Club.. I happen to saw the promo which is ending soon on 31st Dec 2008. Guess did I sign the package?? Answer is NO.. well if those of you who have gone before to the SPA at Bukit Batok.. you will sure think this The Spa @ Aranda compare to them is nothing.. or should I say not as satisfying as the one at Bukit Batok..

1. Service wise they are quite good..
2. Massage .. maybe is their Aranda Signature massage.. not use to their kind of massage that is why we might not like it that much..
3. Hard sell.. erm.. they dun.. I actually want to sign if they willing to give me all 8 sessions with body scrub .. but well.. they stick to their stand ok.. fine.. it take 2 hands to clap..
4. Location .. unless I stay at the east.. but my side have bus. 109 to reach.. and indeed very fast.. 30 mins.. ha ha.. but need to walk.. better have a car haha

Time to source for more spa and massage treat.. Dear Dear like it best.. *muacks*

An update for my life what it is going on .. it has been so long I have really post much of my photos of life.. here some nerdy look of mine.. but heh heh heh.. i guess the below post will sure make someone use chopper to chase after me.. o
Oh but I must really really say.. I did try hard to cover up in order not to show too much.. and choose more of what I feel pretty looks of us ok..

Went Waraku on the second week of December.. girls outing.. Yes for the first time.. ha ha I kinda worry to let Dear at home.. but well it goes well and we girls does enjoy too.. thanks Dear for giving me a chance to have this kind of Girls outing.. I does appreciate it.. *muacks*

Apart from that we had went out again together for Pub night out outing.. very fun and well does get to know more about each other partners.. (their fun part) ha ha.. asking partner to help us take photos indeed is a trouble.. ha ha

Some photos taken in the Pub too..


Sidekick of this.. try the recommend Coca Steamboat at Taka.. quite impressive on the food and service.. the price abit high but it does pay off of the service and food.. but I should say.. Tom Yam is current not my cup of tea.. if you intend to have a mix, I am sorry that they does not have half half but they willing to change soup after you have finish your food..



Signing off with my zilian photo again.. tada.. continue to vomit bah..

Christmas 2008 Never we have expect to spend it with wlny friends (Raymond & Lynn) .. but it is fun.. cos Dear able to enjoy his red wine.. and me get to have him to celebrate Christmas together and have nice food.

Sashimi bought from NTUC.. quite a good catch really.. just felt it is not cold enough.. but it is really very big pieces ok..


Sidekick of it is my hold of alcohol is super lousy that a few mouthful get me the feeling to vomit.. which in the end did not but the feeling is lousy.. After sometime it feel better.. I began to talk and eat with them.. here some photos of what we had After that was card game.. did i ever start complaining about Christmas eve was a rainy days that spoilt the whole outing as we have actually plan for a outdoor pinic.. but haiz.. just got to live with it and we spend it at Raymond home..

Ending my Chirstmas with the pic of us and Raymond..

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year

Ho ho ho.. it is the eve of the Christmas and do you know why there is a Christmas this holiday what is the meaning behind it?
I bet most of us will not know but just going to play hard during this holiday season..
Just a remind.. to all Drink dun drive.. eat but control your diet (for those pretty ladies out there)
But i guess not many able to read this blog.. also not much quite useful..

Sidekick that happen on the way to work

What will be the least kind of Passenger you will expect to board on the bus?
1. Pervert
2. Molester

Wrong.. it a doggie..

It happen after the stop at Paya Lebar MRT, it just rush up to the bus (of cos with some ladies screaming) and the bus driver try to carry it down and leave it there.. but it seem that the doggie is super 'keen' on his trip on bus, it ran up again.. and there we go on our journey with the doggie for 1 stop. Doggies was passing thru everyone leg and sniff sniff everywhere during the 1 stop journey we had. At the moment I almost have to urge to pat him awhile but pull back my hand as it might be giving the doggie hope and later following me how? It got off the bus unwillingly and before the doggie has the chance to hop on again, one Auntie at the bus stop hold the doggie in order not to let it hop on again and off we go this time without the doggie onboard..

The drive off feeling does not feel good for me.. as it sort of like abandon the puppy.. and you can see the puppy was running after the bus after we drove off.. the sadness and guilty.. and I do worry for the puppy as wandering at somewhere he might not be familiar without the doggie papa or mama around.. haiz.. Hope the doggie be alright.

It has been a long abandon blog cause I have not been writing quite frequent on the blog.. even when I am clearing my leave or how i was curse and swear and wannted to blog so much of that shop.. I did not come online to blog..

Well now I guess having an hour before the time is up for lunch, let me update what so bad.. haha
Went Chin Huat Live Seafood located at Thomson there to have our dinner on a Saturday, after a long wait queueing finally we got a seat of 5 (including my sis and her kids)

First impression : the utensil is dirty, half of it I got to change with the shop for a new set.

When round to look at the varity of food.. oh gosh.. those it look a lot but alot was those repeating food stuff.. those standard food I usually eat like cuttlefish/sea cucumber/beef was not found. and the portion was cut into very very small portion.. the meat was pre marinated.. you can hardly find those to put into the soup.

What nice.. the live prawn and the teppanyaki, indeed as said live prawn the freshness of cos it is there.. and i guess what i eat most is this 2 items.. did not have my fill, and left the place with lots of unhappiness as the plates was not clear and was stacking up high, clearing of the leftover by the leaving customer, the waiter was in fact throwing the plate into the pail and making lots of noise.. bad impression. You can hardly see the waiter until the boss finally appear.. so overall.. I am not going back for a second time at all..

Apart from that my leave was spend happily.. with Dear every moment of the days.. shopping slugging at home and eating..
Life is too short to be miss and waste.. spend everyday happily.. but really I am trying hard to fulfill that..