30 more minutes
and it will come to an end of Yr 2008
I am currently alone in front of the computer updating this blog..
I have been struggling the whole day not to throw temper to my Dear Dear.. and thinking should I go out to enjoy this countdown celebration.. I tot I be able to sleep alone without Dear Dear as I am already so tired.. but I guess.. I am wrong.. though I am so tired.. but so use to Dear by my side.. I just dun feel like going to bed or even falling into sleep..
Did I ever tell him.. everytime without him by my side.. I cannot really sleep well.. I will always be half asleep and waiting for him to come back..

Since there is so much time I have to spend till 3am in the morning.. I went online in search of the noodle & bao jokes which I have been telling him super funny..


　某天面条与肉包因为细故而发生争执，双方便大打出手，但是肉包因为太肉脚，被面条打得落花流水，於是在负伤离去时，对面条撂下一句狠话：“好胆别走，我去叫伙伴来教训你。”
　 　肉包就跑去约了水煎包、馒头、红豆面包等，准备要去找面条理论。他们在半路上遇到了泡面，肉包他们於围住了泡面给他毒打一顿，泡面不分青红皂白被打了一 顿後，大声的问肉包为何要打他，肉包回答：“死面条，别以为你烫了头发，我就不认得你了？”之後，泡面带著满身的伤跑去找面条大哥哭诉，面条也不甘示弱， 立刻带了一帮面面兄弟：米粉、冬粉、乌龙面和日本荞面去找肉包报仇。路上遇到了刚看完电影出来的小笼包，当下便把他毒打一顿，小笼包问他们为何打他？泡面 回答：“烂肉包，别以为你装可爱，我就认不出你来。”
　　小笼包在被打之後，越想越不爽，於是就跑去通知包子弟兄们，众包子为了替小笼包报不平， 每个人手拿家伙要去给他们好看。可是在路上遇到了炸酱面，小笼包立刻要冲上去准备挥拳，不料却被众包子们阻止，小笼包被大伙们脱离，很肚烂的问为何要放过 他？大家异口同声地说：“都还没打他呢，他就已经吓得拉了一裤子，再打下去他不就挂了。”
　　话说泡面在海扁完小笼包後越战越勇，想来个续摊，便 再次夥同面面家族们再去找小笼包；没想到在路上遇到了割包，“哗”泡面在狂吼一声便发疯似的手脚齐飞，其他的面面把泡面拉开来问说：“你干嘛这麽生气 呀？”泡面悻悻然地说：“你看他那个 死样子，装可爱就算了，还给我头发中分，装江口洋介耍酷。”
　　话说包子家族的小笼包被误打後心里越想越不 甘心，没事居然被平白无故被打了一顿，於是又找了一堆包子族要去报仇，结果在路上看到科学面，马上害怕地躲了起来，因为科学面身穿防弹衣，小笼包不敢去招 惹，在遁逃的途中遇到了银丝卷，他想把在被窝里睡觉的面条脱回去当人质，於是便把银丝卷带回去严刑逼供，结果被包子族的长老 K了一顿：“死孩子，那个不是面条ㄚ，他是我们派去卧底的包子ㄚ。”
　　由於面面族跟包子族积怨已深，两方人马常常看不顺眼当街就互殴一场。某天面面族在路上闲晃，看见落单的叉烧包，仇人相见分外眼红，想起泡面等人的恩怨，二话不说，便把叉烧包狠狠地打了一顿，面条边打边嚷：“给我用力打，你看这个满嘴槟榔汁的讨厌鬼。”
　　可怜的叉烧包头破血流的带著满身的伤去找肉包求救，眼看双方火并的战情一触即发，全国的人纷纷躲避，只见刚喝完洋墨水回国的薯条悠闲的在压马路，一帮包子二话不说，霹哩啪啦将薯条狠狠的揍了一顿，临走肉包还补踹了两脚说：“打了人还敢穿得金光闪闪的逛街！欠扁！”

Isn't it funny..
Sorry to those who cannot really read traditional chinese.. but I am willing to explain when you ask me.. then I will know who is really reading my blog.. I guess not much though.. ha ha

New Year Resolution

Here goes:
1. Get fatter (guess lots of ger will kill me)
But I dun wanna get too fat.. just abit more to be able to wear those nice clothes
2. Get a better job (if I can)
Recently not that happy with my workplace.. anyway.. shh keep inside my heart.. and ganna inner injure.. just hope everything be over soon
3. Save more more $$
so that I can buy nice nice stuff.. and renovate my house..
4. Own a secondhand car with Dar dar
5. Sell/ Marry myself off to Dear.. haha

A friend of mine forward me this email.. which I find it very meaningful and shall post it up here

父母永遠只有一個


_____




媳婦說：

「 煮淡一點妳就嫌沒有味，現在煮鹹一點妳卻說咽不下，

妳究竟想怎麼樣 ？」

母親一見兒子回來，二話不說便把飯菜往咀裡送。

她怒瞪他一眼。

他試了一口，馬上吐出來，

兒子說：「 我不是說過了嗎，媽有病不能吃太鹹！」

「 那好！媽是你的，以後由你來煮！」

媳婦怒氣沖沖地回房。



兒子無奈地輕嘆一聲，然後對母親說：

「 媽，別吃了，我去煮個麵給妳。」

「 仔，你是不是有話想跟媽說，是就說好了，別憋在心裡！

「 媽，公司下個月升我職，我會很忙，

至於老婆，她說很想出來工作，所以 ....」

母親馬上意識到兒子的意思：

「 仔，不要送媽去老人院。」

聲音似乎在哀求。

兒子沉默片刻，他是在尋找更好的理由。



「 媽，其實老人院並沒有甚麼不好，

妳知道老婆一但工作，

一定沒有時間好好服侍妳。

老人院有吃有住有人服侍照顧，不是比在家裡好得多嗎？」

「可是，阿財叔他 ....」



洗了澡，草草吃了一碗速食麵，兒子便到書房去。

他茫然地佇立於窗前，有些猶豫不決。

母親年輕便守寡，含辛茹苦將他撫養成人，供他出國讀書。

但她從不用年輕時的犧牲當作要脅他孝順的籌碼，

反而是妻子以婚姻要脅他！

真的要讓母親住老人院嗎？

仔問自己，他有些不忍。



「 可以陪你下半世的人是你老婆，難道是你媽嗎？」



阿財叔的兒子總是這樣提醒他

「 你媽都這麼老了，好命的話可以活多幾年，

為何不趁這幾年好好孝順她呢？

樹欲靜而風不息，子欲養而親不在啊 ！」

親戚總是這樣勸他。

兒子不敢再想下去，深怕自己真的會改變初衷。



夕晚，太陽收斂起灼熱的金光，躲在山後憩息。

一間建在郊外山崗的一座貴族老人院。



是的，錢用得越多，兒子才心安理得。

當兒子領著母親步入大廳時，

嶄新的電視機，42吋的螢幕正播放著一部喜劇，

但觀眾一點笑聲也沒有。



幾個衣著一樣，髮型一樣的老嫗歪歪斜斜地坐在梳化上，

神情呆滯而有一個老人在自言自語，

有個正緩緩彎下腰，想去撿掉在地上的一塊餅乾吃。

兒子知道母親喜歡光亮，

所以為她選了一間陽光充足的房間。

從窗口望出去，樹蔭下，一片芳草如茵。

幾名護士推著坐在輪椅的老者在夕陽下散步，

四周悄然寂靜得令人心酸。

縱是夕陽無限好，畢竟已到了黃昏，他心中低低嘆息。



「 媽，我........我要走了 ！」

母親只能點頭。

他走時，母親頻頻揮手，

她張著沒有牙的嘴，

蒼白乾燥的咀唇在囁嚅著，一副欲語還休的樣子。

兒子這才注意到母親銀灰色的頭髮，

深陷的眼窩以及打著細紋臉。

母親，真的老了！



他霍然記起一則兒時舊事。

那年他才6歲，母親有事回鄉，不便攜他同行，

於是把他寄住在阿財叔家幾天。

母親臨走時，

他驚恐地抱著母親的腿傷心大聲號哭道：

「 媽媽不要丟下我！媽媽不要走！」



最後母親沒有丟下他。

他連忙離開房間，順手把門關上，不敢回頭，

深恐那記憶像鬼魅似地追纏而來。



他回到家，

妻子與岳母正瘋狂的把母親房裡的一切扔個不亦樂乎。

身高3呎的獎杯──

那是他小學作文比賽「我的母親」第1名的勝利品！

華英字典──

那是母親整個月省吃省用所買給他的第一份生日禮物！

還有母親臨睡前要擦的風濕油，

沒有為她擦，帶去老人院又有甚麼意義呢？



「 夠了，別再扔了！」兒子怒吼道。

﹝這麼多垃圾，不把它扔掉，怎麼放得下我的東西﹞。

岳母沒好氣地說。



「 就是嘛！你趕快把你媽那張爛床給抬出去，

我明天要為我媽添張新的 ！」



一堆童年的照片展現在兒子眼前，

那是母親帶他到動物園和遊樂園拍的照片。



「 它們是我媽的財產，一樣也不能丟！」



「 你這算甚態度？對我媽這麼大聲，我要你向我媽道歉！」



「 我娶妳就要愛妳的母親，

為甚麼妳嫁給我就不能愛我的母親？ 」



雨後的黑夜分外冷寂，街道蕭瑟，行人車輛格外稀少。

一輛寶馬在路上飛馳，頻頻闖紅燈，陷黃格，

呼一聲又飛馳而過。

那輛轎車一路奔往山崗上的那間老人院，

停車直奔上樓，推開母親臥房的門。

他幽靈似地站著，母親正撫摸著風濕痛的雙腿低泣。

她見到兒子手中正拿著那瓶風濕油，

顯然感到安慰的說：

「 媽忘了帶，幸好你拿來！ 」

他走到母親身邊，跪了下來。



「 很晚了，媽自己擦可以了，你明天還要上班，回去吧！」



他囁嚅片刻，終於忍不住啜泣道 ：

「媽，對不起，請原諒我！我們回家去吧 ！」



∼∼後語∼∼



隨著自己愈長大，

看著父母親臉龐從年輕變憔悴，

頭髮從烏絲變白髮,動作從迅捷變緩慢，多心疼！



父母親總是將最好、最寶貴的留給我們，

像蠟燭不停的燃燒自己，照亮孩子！

而我呢？

有沒有騰出一個空間給我的父母，

或者只是在當我需要停泊岸時，

才會想起他們……

其實父母親要的真的不多，

只是一句隨意的問候：爸、媽，你們今天好嗎？」

隨意買的宵夜，煮一頓再普通不過的晚餐，

睡前幫他們盖盖被子，

天冷幫他們添衣服、戴手套……

都能讓他們高興溫馨很久。



有時，我常在想：我希望我的子女以後如何對我。

那現在，我有沒有如此對待我的父母？

我相信，人是環環相扣的；

現在，你如何對待你的父母；

以後，你的子女就如何待你。



朋友，人世間最難報的就是父母恩，

願我們都能：以反哺之心奉敬父母，以恩之心孝順父母！



∼共勉之∼

生命不要求我們成為最好的，只要求我們作最大的努力！

老人安養院牆上發現的一篇文章

孩子！當你還很小的時候，

我花了很多時間，教你慢慢用湯匙、用筷子吃東西。

教你繫鞋帶、扣扣子、溜滑梯、教你穿衣服、梳頭髮、擰鼻涕。

這些和你在一起的點點滴滴，是多麼的令我懷念不已。

所以，當我想不起來，接不上話時，

請給我一點時間，等我一下，

讓我再想一想……極可能最後連要說什麼，我也一併忘記。

孩子！

你忘記我們練習了好幾百回，

才學會的第一首娃娃歌嗎？

是否還記得每天總要我絞盡腦汁，

去回答不知道你從哪裡冒出來的嗎？

所以，當我重覆又重覆說著老掉牙的故事，

哼著我孩提時代的兒歌時，體諒我。

讓我繼續沉醉在這些回憶中吧！

切望你，也能陪著我閒話家常吧！

孩子，現在我常忘了扣扣子、繫鞋帶。

吃飯時，會弄髒衣服，梳頭髮時手還會不停的抖，

不要催促我，要對我多一點耐心和溫柔，

只要有你在一起，就會有很多的溫暖湧上心頭。

孩子！如今，我的腳站也站不穩，走也走不動。

所以，請你緊緊的握著我的手，陪著我，慢慢的。

就像當年一樣，我帶著你一步一步地走。

若為人子女也不懂得如何體諒他們，

那他們便只能於痛苦中渡過餘生，黑暗中逝去....



請把此文章轉發給您的朋友，

讓他們知道家人才是最重要的。

愛情可以重新再找尋，但父母一生卻只有一個，

要珍惜、珍重

Lots of times we really tend to neglect our parents as due to work, relationship and friendship.. it is high time we should reflect on ourselves and bond on our relationship with our parent.. while reading this email.. I almost cry out.. it is really very touching.. parent see us grow up, take care of us when we are young, and teaches us whatever things we need to be learn .. but when we began to grow up , we began to find them naggy , less sticky to them and even.. try to stay a distance to them ..
No matter what they might have done in the past.. it has all past.. it is them who gave us this life, a chance to see this world.. life contains forgive and forget..why not we start with our parents..

Spa treat by hubby at The Spa @ Aranda

Had made an appointment with Dear to enjoy spa massage today at Aranda Country Club.. I happen to saw the promo which is ending soon on 31st Dec 2008. Guess did I sign the package?? Answer is NO.. well if those of you who have gone before to the SPA at Bukit Batok.. you will sure think this The Spa @ Aranda compare to them is nothing.. or should I say not as satisfying as the one at Bukit Batok..

1. Service wise they are quite good..
2. Massage .. maybe is their Aranda Signature massage.. not use to their kind of massage that is why we might not like it that much..
3. Hard sell.. erm.. they dun.. I actually want to sign if they willing to give me all 8 sessions with body scrub .. but well.. they stick to their stand ok.. fine.. it take 2 hands to clap..
4. Location .. unless I stay at the east.. but my side have bus. 109 to reach.. and indeed very fast.. 30 mins.. ha ha.. but need to walk.. better have a car haha

Time to source for more spa and massage treat.. Dear Dear like it best.. *muacks*

An update for my life what it is going on .. it has been so long I have really post much of my photos of life.. here some nerdy look of mine.. but heh heh heh.. i guess the below post will sure make someone use chopper to chase after me.. o
Oh but I must really really say.. I did try hard to cover up in order not to show too much.. and choose more of what I feel pretty looks of us ok..

Went Waraku on the second week of December.. girls outing.. Yes for the first time.. ha ha I kinda worry to let Dear at home.. but well it goes well and we girls does enjoy too.. thanks Dear for giving me a chance to have this kind of Girls outing.. I does appreciate it.. *muacks*

Apart from that we had went out again together for Pub night out outing.. very fun and well does get to know more about each other partners.. (their fun part) ha ha.. asking partner to help us take photos indeed is a trouble.. ha ha

Some photos taken in the Pub too..


Sidekick of this.. try the recommend Coca Steamboat at Taka.. quite impressive on the food and service.. the price abit high but it does pay off of the service and food.. but I should say.. Tom Yam is current not my cup of tea.. if you intend to have a mix, I am sorry that they does not have half half but they willing to change soup after you have finish your food..



Signing off with my zilian photo again.. tada.. continue to vomit bah..

Christmas 2008 Never we have expect to spend it with wlny friends (Raymond & Lynn) .. but it is fun.. cos Dear able to enjoy his red wine.. and me get to have him to celebrate Christmas together and have nice food.

Sashimi bought from NTUC.. quite a good catch really.. just felt it is not cold enough.. but it is really very big pieces ok..


Sidekick of it is my hold of alcohol is super lousy that a few mouthful get me the feeling to vomit.. which in the end did not but the feeling is lousy.. After sometime it feel better.. I began to talk and eat with them.. here some photos of what we had After that was card game.. did i ever start complaining about Christmas eve was a rainy days that spoilt the whole outing as we have actually plan for a outdoor pinic.. but haiz.. just got to live with it and we spend it at Raymond home..

Ending my Chirstmas with the pic of us and Raymond..

Merry Christmas & Happy New Year

Ho ho ho.. it is the eve of the Christmas and do you know why there is a Christmas this holiday what is the meaning behind it?
I bet most of us will not know but just going to play hard during this holiday season..
Just a remind.. to all Drink dun drive.. eat but control your diet (for those pretty ladies out there)
But i guess not many able to read this blog.. also not much quite useful..

Sidekick that happen on the way to work

What will be the least kind of Passenger you will expect to board on the bus?
1. Pervert
2. Molester

Wrong.. it a doggie..

It happen after the stop at Paya Lebar MRT, it just rush up to the bus (of cos with some ladies screaming) and the bus driver try to carry it down and leave it there.. but it seem that the doggie is super 'keen' on his trip on bus, it ran up again.. and there we go on our journey with the doggie for 1 stop. Doggies was passing thru everyone leg and sniff sniff everywhere during the 1 stop journey we had. At the moment I almost have to urge to pat him awhile but pull back my hand as it might be giving the doggie hope and later following me how? It got off the bus unwillingly and before the doggie has the chance to hop on again, one Auntie at the bus stop hold the doggie in order not to let it hop on again and off we go this time without the doggie onboard..

The drive off feeling does not feel good for me.. as it sort of like abandon the puppy.. and you can see the puppy was running after the bus after we drove off.. the sadness and guilty.. and I do worry for the puppy as wandering at somewhere he might not be familiar without the doggie papa or mama around.. haiz.. Hope the doggie be alright.

It has been a long abandon blog cause I have not been writing quite frequent on the blog.. even when I am clearing my leave or how i was curse and swear and wannted to blog so much of that shop.. I did not come online to blog..

Well now I guess having an hour before the time is up for lunch, let me update what so bad.. haha
Went Chin Huat Live Seafood located at Thomson there to have our dinner on a Saturday, after a long wait queueing finally we got a seat of 5 (including my sis and her kids)

First impression : the utensil is dirty, half of it I got to change with the shop for a new set.

When round to look at the varity of food.. oh gosh.. those it look a lot but alot was those repeating food stuff.. those standard food I usually eat like cuttlefish/sea cucumber/beef was not found. and the portion was cut into very very small portion.. the meat was pre marinated.. you can hardly find those to put into the soup.

What nice.. the live prawn and the teppanyaki, indeed as said live prawn the freshness of cos it is there.. and i guess what i eat most is this 2 items.. did not have my fill, and left the place with lots of unhappiness as the plates was not clear and was stacking up high, clearing of the leftover by the leaving customer, the waiter was in fact throwing the plate into the pail and making lots of noise.. bad impression. You can hardly see the waiter until the boss finally appear.. so overall.. I am not going back for a second time at all..

Apart from that my leave was spend happily.. with Dear every moment of the days.. shopping slugging at home and eating..
Life is too short to be miss and waste.. spend everyday happily.. but really I am trying hard to fulfill that..

A back-dated blog on Dear ex-colleague wedding lunch at M Hotel.. The door gift that I will least expected is measuring tape and chopsticks
Anyway.. kinda bored.. I keep my mouth shut most of the time and playing with Dear Iphone.. like a spoilt child.. well dun quite know them and their topic are all about M company so.. nothing to chip in.. even I get to chip in.. eh.. the things dun click.. i need try ok..
Other than that.. I dress pretty nicely to the lunch just bring a "not so pretty" bag .. ha ha cannot find a nice one and PG bag is still not here..

After that we went orchard to shop for Dear Iphone pouch.. "HE IS A WOMAN OK" really.. for a pouch only he can see see look look touch touch and finally tell me he want a sport grip.. very mafan.. or should I say.. as mafan as a woman? whaha..

"Dear Pig,
i know you are busy so i will not disturb u any future. Please inform me when you solved your problem.. dun over stress urself and remember to drink water. If you need someone to talk to just call me.

Regards,
Pig Hubby"

Oh so sweet of Dear to msn me this message when I am so stress out with the work I am doing as this time I hit something that during my time here in the freight forwarder company 3 yrs, never encounter situation..

Luckily.. and hopefully that the problems be solve soon..

14/11/08

Finally it is Thursday, and it is so good to know it will be Friday tomorrow and will have badminton session with Dear colleagues after work..

Saturday be company Dear to M Hotel for a wedding lunch of his ex-colleague. So kan chiong.. never really see those of his colleague before and the best part of all if you all are the same as me.. a private Dip going to entertain those NUS NTU degree holder colleague..
I am not sure am I able to handle it.. or will I be a day clown to them..
Just like in the past there is once when I was with this friend of mine to attend his Secondary Friends gathering.. I was so bored thru out the whole gathering, as they are all studying at NTU or NUS and they went to those JC..
Imagine when they are talking about Secondary school maths where I make a fool of myself to think they are talking about E Math.. which in turn is A Math.. oh is so tmd paisei loh..
A bad experience for me..

Something to be happy about is Dear bought me a phone (Onmia ) for me last friday. Till now I am still struggling to learn to operate the phone. But whos care.. I like it.. ha ha
Also Tuesday I guess is Dear happy days.. cos he finally got his wish to buy the iphone.. well a matter of time for him to grow tired and shall propose the idea to sell the phone for cash .. whahaha

I guess Nov & Dec is not quite a good year for quite a few ppl around me (including my dear dear).. Mostly are regards to jobs.. so trouble and in fact I was worry for them too..
Hope everything be fine for everyone..

It has been sometime I have not blog already.. by looking the month of October I have been ranting alot on my studies.. haiz think so much for what.. alot of unexpected things will pop out from nowhere to make you decide and go along..

<-- See this photos.. haha taken at Pulau Ubin while waiting for another friends to exchange his bicycle back at the shop..
Chris is selling Thailand brand mosquito repellent.. but well it did ward off some of the mosquito.. and his pose.. who know he might be the new SINGAPORE TOP MODEL .. whaha..

Just had a very full and complete steamboat with Vic.. the new found friends and we chat alot at the steamboat dinner.. it is not the food we mind but the topic and enjoyment of each other companion that is very much enjoyable.. dunno why just out of the blue I came here to blog.. also to wait for my dear call.. anyway I guess I will be asleep before he come back.. (but got to wait for my stomach to digest the food)

Found quite a fewbacklog photos that I have yet to upload and blog.. cos this is xinfu and happiness.. just like the 'mouse' Dear dear had bought for me.. DORAEMON k.. so cute.. brought to office to use.. share the pic and a closer look of how it look like..

My table with the mouse..

A closer look of it.. it has blue light ok..

For the past 25 years in my life, I have never step into Palau Ubin before and so when office bring up to go there for cycle and seafood dinner crave me alot esp. recently been always eating crab crab crab.. haha.. and so there we go 4 couple to Palau Ubin.. the unknow island to gers and I was trying to act cool with my sunglass at home camwhoring.. wahaha..

A less than 20 mins ride will get you to the island which FYI does not need passport k.. so no need mama or papa permission you be able to go Palau Ubin.. the outskirt of Singapore place which I should say.. most of us..Singaporean child never get to live and try .. Kampong Life..

Here you go.. Palau ubin.. ahem.. we simply like a tourist to a unknown place and take down the message ' WELCOME TO PALAU UBIN' indeed mountain tortise..

The most magnificent place I love most is the high top tower where we climb at least 4 storey high to view the scenery from top down.. even those *ahem* who is scare of height also went up..

Sea view when the tide subsides..

Him.. my love..

And me of cos.. this the taken from a high place k..

We actually risk our life to go up as before you climb up the stair it state maximum load 20 pax.. and do you know while we are on the top , there is other few more batches of ppl.. load by load climb up and up to the highest level with us which we counted.. 18 pax.. the top was like shaking when the wind blow and kinda scary.. we took a group photos and quickly run down ..

It is a bliss I am still here to blog.. wahhaa

Lastly .. ending my blog and goes to sleep with my act cute plus act coolz photos..nightz

女子无才便是德

Well said the lord that this sentance could be the most classic and closer to what I am thinking recently already, as how many guys in this world are willing their the other partner earn more and much cleverer than them..

Woman to them should be once announce "I Am Pregnant" , you will have to start to plan to stay home take care of children (but not to forget to claim finish your maternity leave first.. haha)

All man would prefer their wife to take care of their kids and stay home to 相夫叫子, never be the opposite.. or maybe to start working again when your kids get older.. it will always be the woman to give up her work for the kids not the man.. why???

Kids belong to both of the party, but why just the woman have to take care and not the guys.. not here to debate cos this is blog.. not debating centre..

But guess 我也逃不过这个命运

Study might have to come to a halt.. or even give up since it does not show any purpose at all..

A simple job for me to work and earn my shopping money should be the way it is..

婚前婚后

到底是不是因该接受改变？

我相信我爱的都是一直以来的那个你， 从来都没变过， 可是。。 近来好像不再是那样了。。

可能是婚后的我因该多加体谅， 多加支持你。。 我都在尽力， 难道你都没看到？

到底我们的结婚是对还是错？我们还不够了解对方吗？

我真的能是一个好妻子吗？

STRESS

As what my header had said it all, I am so stress now.. yesterday was damn happy I am able to study Degree and within 18 months the course will be complete and with only each term I need to attend 20 hours continuously for every 3 months and left with self study..

But guess everything might need to come into a halt.. things are always goes not on your way of what you want.. unless you are willing to give up lots of thing in life that you have in plan.. no more good meals, no more luxury, no more enjoyment..

House of Seafood - 螃蟹之家

Yum yum.. Finally had my favourite Black Pepper Crab on Saturday.. muacks thank you Dear dear for treating me .. Order a plate of Hong Kong Noodle and Black pepper crab only.. but the portion is big so more than enough for us to eat and within our budget $55.00

Compare the last time we have white pepper crab at No Sign Board and here.. I feel I prefer House of Seafood as the crab meat is more firm and sweet.. Oh ~~ looking forward my next stop to try out Crab Beehoon at AMK.

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A total enjoyment with Dear dear over the weekend.. Trust me.. I am trying hard to change and control my temper too.. and indeed over the weekend proven I can do it..

Saturday went to Kaplan early in the morning to find out more on Dear degree course and well.. guess all school only recongnise their own school Dip. which in turn Dear dear have to re-course again on Kaplan Dip and then Degree.. 2 and a 1/2 years to go.. which actually just as our own planning to. Now is save save save period, must control our own shopping and save for everything that is to come after 2 years..

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Work Hard and JIA YOU

Wishlist for 2008

1) Samsung Onmia HP

Ok consider I am flickle minded ppl, first is SE phone then is Viewty then now this.. well though already quite tired of using Samsung phone.. but after testing out this phone.. I find that I like this best.. the combine of lots of new function that enables me to explore and use more..

Anyway gonna wait till Dec then I can upgrade/change my phone.. just 2 more months.. I will sure fetch this phone home..

Also.. haha hopefully the price will have further reduction.. Kinda steep still SGD798 with my current contract.




A PMS sidetrack.. it all happen yesterday where I just keep throwing my temper to Chris.. I know I am in the wrong but I just cannot help and I am really sorry about it.. Though sorry might not compensate all as.. a word of sorry might not solve or heal the hurt I keep raising my voice to him.. Recently I feel it has seem to be getting from bad to worse.. I should not have done those in the first place.. where have all the good old times sweet feeling and understanding of each other has gone too..
I should start to reflect and control more of my emotions.. Chris is my partner not my shouting/ bully partner..
Last but not least, truely sorry and my out of control emo.. I was unable to control my emotions and maybe sometime crying could cure all wonders..

Last topic I should blog on this post should consider happiness.. ^_^

Received a good news from a new know friend her BF aka now fiancé has finally propose to her.. She been jumping for joy the whole morning (thru msn) showing us her happiness.. and we do able to feel and really feel happy for her too. So they might be getting married earlier than me.. have chop a place to be her Bridesmaid.. though a bit thick-skin but i really very happy to be one.. :) hope she will not mind

Wednesday

Super tired.. Yesterday meet up with HVA HKG staff (Doris & Pauline), bring them out to orchard for a walk/ shopping and to taste our local food their favourite "Laksa"

While eating, I make a few call to old time HVA colleague who have all left the office.. like KE, LN, JT who are those few ladies we use to get along with till.. ahem let leave that part away

But I always thought I will never contact them again.. as when i pick up the phone and chose their name and when my finger goes to the call button I began to hesitate.. worrying will they give me cold shoulder?

Anyway everything was just me myself for thinking too much afterall.. I call.. the phone get thru so worry they saw unfamiliar number will reject the call.. and the hello and the voice when I know they still remember me this ah bao ger ger.. in my heart I can't help to feel warm and touching.. though we have been lost contact for almost 3 years.. the last time we saw each other was at my dad wake.. where that the least I would expect they would come cos I did not inform them at all..

So I have arrange to meet them up with our HKG colleague tomorrow, hopefully KE can make it too.. still pondering where to bring them to eat dinner man.. a headache issue.. haiz..

Then have just confirm with Weiyan this weekend to KUSU Island bai bai.. another 2 year never go place.. the last memory was to take the ferry from Clifford Pier and now all has change to the new Pier at Marina South.. looking forward to see the new Pier too..

It seem all program has been pack for this week that I began to feel my Life has becoming alive and kicking again.. it is good to have progam to do during weekend apart from those clubbing and drinking.. this at least a better outing right..

So was suggesting to Dear badminton next week.. hopefully we can make it a weekly thing too.. excerise for a better lifestyle..

Resting Weekend

Have to work on Saturday.. have been looking forward for November to stop this saturday alternate working.. weet-u-weet so happy..

But recently I have been thinking.. my recent last blog.. I have been thinking should I be blogging up that feeling and thinking on net and to let others to see.. cos I guess that might have been too straight forward..

Was watching channel 8 repeat drama " Taste of Love" there this actress that say

" Life is short, no point to keep holding on those unhappiness and continue to stay unhappy, it would rather to let it go and stay happy to enjoy life.. "

Is she right??

It is all 50 cents Coffee Bean fault

Coffee Bean is celebrating their birthday month so for the month of October every Wednesday they have different promotion going on. Yesterday was the first promo which they are selling their daily brew coffee at 50 cents only.. And I tell you, it is in regular size ok!
We had it after lunch which I manage to almost finish the coffee before I off work and raise my white flag I cannot drink anymore. But not to that I know, I was unable to fall asleep last night.. it could be the drama fault too, as the doggie and the kitty is so cute in the show.. Finally I manage to get into sleep at almost 11 while Dear dear is still playing with his bros. I could not sleep well, keep waking up in the middle of the night and thinking it is almost time to wake up and so did not wanna to fall into deep sleep, but actually there is still a long way to go loh.. omg

So lesson learn, never drink so much coffee after lunch and no cute/exciting show before sleep. haha I was just joking.

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Prepare for a long blog today as I am still very awake from the coffee yesterday.. wahaha and hopefully to night I am able to sleep like erm.. a pig? bleh

Recently there is a close friend of mine quite sick, due to kinda worried for her, out of concern it is still those regular said sentence like
"Please do go see a doctor"
"Please do a check, as it could be a signal of problem"

Maybe it could be due to recent the relationship gets kind of tense between both of us and it led to my own feeling and thinking of what her reply is implicating like
"I know, (knowing what to do with my ownself, does not need your care)"
"I will see how later (please stop your nagging nonsence)"

But it is all my own thinking but whoever is in my position may think in this way too.. anyway from now on,
I will just show care for those who appreciate it
Concern to those who needs it and will not reject it as rubbish

Sometime slience is a better escape than to keep talking cos people will just think
"Please do not put your concept into mine"

Well end of ranting.. and maybe end of all.. it could be just true that you gain a new best friend will turn to lose another friend.
or it may just be
My wrong to not to listen to what others have said before and introduce jobs to people
My wrong has start from the start of her first job cos I have been "manupilate" her from the past to present which it should be time to stop
Things have change , thinking will grow and change too, feeling does change too
but hopefully it is to the best.. not to the worst
God Bless
To me, I use to think friendship is always the first in line in my life which Dear dear always complain about that.. but now.. it does not seem to be that way anyway.. blame it on my naive.. Dear dear is the one who will company me till the end of my life ends.. Friends is the additional salt and pepper into my life.. I should have treasure Dear dear more..

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Talking back to the recent economy I have overhear from others "expert", recent complain on the increase of PUB bill.. which made me pondering too.. is it when there a start of company began to increase all others will just follows without thinking is it reasonable? As what I have observe, the petrol in all station seem to be dropping price and papers do state that the oil per barrel is US120 - US100 and yet there are some expertise estimating the oil be increasing to US150 per barrel. Eh US dollars is increasingly higher and hopefully back to the past standard.. then why are there giving this kind of estimation. Is it fair to increase so much and many times within a year? What I heard during my lunch time was everyone complaining on the hikes of expenses.. which there is nothing we can do and just bear with it..

Life is hard already, now it is getting more harder to live with it

Nothing much.. just wanna post a quote said by 何妈 in 溏心风暴之家好月圆 drama..


"人在做天在看"

No matter what things we are doing or trying to hide.. there is just still ways that the truth will shown out by itself.

My hectic weekend..
As per just my topic.. it is a hectic weekend..
Saturday night out of the blue i request that I shall drive home this time .. erm for about after 3 years not touch any car.. it was a dangerous trip back home.. well all the while Dear is sternly say this few sentence
1) look in front
2) you going off track
3) head no need to turn to see mirror

It is getting me off the hey-wire and keep telling him off.. I know, I got see..
Even back to home carpark Dear still give off chance and keep nag nag nag.. not a word to praise me since I have stop driving for.. erm.. 3 years..

Sunday more happening leh..
my greatest enemy Cockroach is finally destroy by my sis and dear dear.. but it is quite gross to take pics ahem.. so i rather not to show.. but well SHELIDTOX ROCKS.. haha though it is quite expensive but it proves their worths of money as said by my dear..
Kitchen is now free from roachs.. and my room is free from dust too.. (but why dear dear is running a flu today?)

Here to blog again.. including uploading that night wedding dinner photos taken 1 shot with my dear.. have to comment.. he look handsome and smart with that kind of dressing.. but omg.. how can I like that praise him.. he will soon get proud of it..

Handsome bah..
The owner of the photo must be smiling while reading it.. buey tahan..

Must be wondering too this few days where I have been bah.. not online on MSN.. been busy entertaining guests from Taiwan..

Not just that.. for the first time.. TVL colleagues went clubbing together..

Wedding dinner @ Orchard Parade Hotel by Tung Lok Group

Well not a bad experience as quite impress by their service there.. not to forget I do held my ROM at Noble House too.
But this time was to attend Dear cousin wedding, took some photos so stay tune..

Good experience as I finally able to see Dear dear daddy side of family members.. even those 'not in good terms' one.. haha.. though did not talk much but at the least know who is who..

And realize Dear lame joke is back.. haha this is the conversation he had with his bro Wee
(YS = Dear Dear YW= His Bro) and the involve place is locate @ AMK which have 2 kopitiam selling crab opposite each other

YW : Ok so the final plan is shall wait for you at 'Gugu' house there de crab kopitiam k
YS : Ok shall wait for you at the kopitiam who use the indian spices to cook the crab
YW : .... what do you mean?
YS : There are 2 coffeeshop right, one of them use Indian spices to cook the crab another one use Indonesia spices to cook, so I shall meet you at the one using the Indian spices
YW : .... huh how I know ah?
YS : That why you need to go find out loh.. (Baobei aka Me laughing while listening their conversation)
YW : oooh I know liao, you mean the Brother stall right?
YS : *pointing at Me* Dear please explain to him
??????? without knowing how to answer wor.. I should not be involve in this Lame situation
YS : Anyway I will just wait for you at the one using the Indian Spices..

Wahaha though both of them know they both are trying to be lame but they just go along with each other.. so conclusion should be.. Super Lame right.. that is the LIMS Family.. wakaka

Hmm How did the F1 week affect me?

Almost late everyday, but lucky everyone is...
Sardine sandwich every morning.. (meaning pack in the train cabin with ppl)

To make matter worse, Dear tell me that this is going to last for 5 years.. OMG not going to work in town anymore.. haha

Today is a Saturday should have declare off for everyone since the start of F1..
But sad to say no .. and I dunno what I am doing in this beautiful morning.. very 'sotong'..
I get prep and go to bus stop walking in a slow pace.. board the bus and start day dream and almost forget to get off the bus and all the way take to the interchange.. change to train was walking like a zombie.. keep thinking to top my farecard but always will tell myself later later.. must do it after work already. Come to office.. no one was here yet.. and no keys with me... tmd and the worse of all.. Del (my colleague) forget to bring her too.. our only savior.. YT is here for the rescue.. haha everyone got into office at 8.45am.. lol

-Paintball outing on 21/09/08-
It is a pity that we forget to take photos of wearing the mask or the surrounding.. or even us.. cos we sweating like mad with our long sleeve top and bottoms..
Just a word of describe of the game : Exciting
A word to describe of getting shot : PAIN!!!!
A word to describe of the after game : Tired..

haha overall it is quite fun.. with additional add in member Raymond and GF.. already we are planning for the next one after dear dear RT for sure..

Yesterday was watching the 7 pm show where xiao yue find out about her hubby betray her with another woman have sex and got pregnant..

And so it leads to this conversation I have with my hubby aka jinzhu aka lamer (you will know why later)
XB = me YS = hubby

XB : If you get drunk and f*** with a girl I know, would you tell me?
YS : Yes , cos I cannot lie to you ma..

XB : If I get drunk and f*** with a guy, should I tell you?
YS : Yes, cos I want to know who the guy is and make him suffer

XB : If you get a girl pregnant, will you tell me?
YS : No .. cos that will never happen..

XB : .. oh that mean f***ing with another girl may happen loh?
YS : ....

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Remember there someone who make this kinda of comment before
" Guy can accept Girl for betray if there is no sex involve in the betray , but Girl can accept Guy betray if there is sex but no Love in the relationship

But guess for me.. is both.. no Love how will have sex?

090908 - Our Special Day

To make the special day happen, lots of stuff need to get ready and done before we can really sit back and enjoy..
-> On 04/09/08 : We had an appointment at ROM to collect our Cert and to make vows that we did not violate any laws and suchs..

Our forms and queue no. actually the timing given by them later a bit it is okay.. waiting time is about 30 mins to complete all.. still not that bad

-> Actual Day 09/09/08 : Collect the car early in the morning, lucky got all the things done just additional we rent 1 more day to drive around, thanks to NTUC card and Alphine car rentals that I get a member discount to rent the car and the one I want Vios.. thanks Jess.. haha and not to forget pumping petrol at Caltex entitle additonal 5% discount when you use NTUC credit card for payment.. heehee
Reach the Noble House at 12.50pm, surprise to see the first to reach is Meiyee, then dear family member & JP Mr Khor , then TVL colleagues and dear primary school frenz and also Ivy .. haha my family memeber is the second last to reach.. got into a panic why they have not reach as the JP is so early there.. my gosh.. haha .. talk lesser and enjoy the photos bah..

Meiyee on the left, thanks for her to come early to help me on some arrangement on the table and taking photos for me



Our JP Michael Khor



Dear dear Family
(from standing left is his bro, and bro's gf)
(from sitting left is his dad, mom and grandma)



My only left secondary good in contact female friends Ivy
Very touch that she just appear to pass me the gift and to attend the ceremony.
It is quite a pity 2 years ago I was unable to attend hers.. but at least I get to see her bb boy Aaron was born.



Photos of 2 family together.. 1 missing from my side..

Finally we are husband and wife

TVL colleagues



My ex-colleague from HVA



TVL Female Force

*********After that was heading to Cafe Del Mar for some photos taking.. have to comment the weather is really HOT.. *******



Group photos of those who attend the Cafe Del Mar hot weather..



My favorite photo taken that day.. but if you looking closely will find my eyes is closing.. haiz.. what a waste..

**************Dinner at Vivo city - The Mussel Guy **************

Those who attend again..

Food wise., not that up to expectation.. but they really patient.. we from ordering.. shifting from indoor to outdoor.. request this and that , they are always willing to do it.. ahem.. i am not that sure any additional topping on our food lah..*praying hard hope not**

*********Lastly is K @ Party World at Shenton Way*********

Yoz.. with his bros finally took some photos..



and my nerd.. with a different outfit (bought on my own)..

Tomorrow be the special day..

My blog name guess gonna change name.. to erm.. Our Story? ha ha
I wish upon the star, moon, sun nothing unusual will happen tomorrow.

All the best..

5 more days to ROM..

A blank in my mind..
I know I should be the most 幸福 bride (on my own perception stop vomiting)
but guess I am suffering from pre-marriage symptom but hope it soon be over soon..
Just collect our cert. today from ROM, got some hiccup while getting there.. which that is a place I always get to see on tv.. first time there k.. but everything still went well after all.. 30 mins of waiting only..

Did take some photos just now.. shall update when I upload those photos into com.

Chalet on 2007 for my company

It start with checking into the chalet at Pasir Ris and shopping for the things we need



and enjoying our game jiggle? it is JENGA lah



and the most siao thing we have agree with our boss is to meet for breakfast early in the morning 8am which causes lots of us did not sleep well (haiz scare overslept lah)
Did I miss out to tell you all latecomers will need to pay penalty of S$200 bucks?



Oh go Pasir Ris how could we miss our youngster favorite??
The WILD WILD WET!!!!!




But it is basically more for us to learn how to take care of kids more.. ask the expert Del and her bf

Of cos chalet will not have to miss out BBQ right.. though the weather spoilt a part of our mood with rain but overall we still manage to cook all the food and almost finish all



Sidekick :

While the Taiwan boss is here again, putting away those uncertain we get to enjoy delicious chilli crab at Jumbo East Coast and not forgetting the nice ambiance we have there.. it is so romantic.. just a pity I did not went there with my Dear dear only ha ha

On our way to East Coast, in the car camwhoring and comparing whose hp take the nicest shot

Rant rant rant..
From the last week till now my mood has never been good. When people began to say you are petty and not thinking for others, they should be thinking back on their own, are we thinking they are doing the same to us too??

Well in this world, there is no just black and white / right or wrong, sometime there is grey area when in my point of view I may not be wrong, which for those who I might have ask for advice they truely support my idea and proven I am not wrong. I may not be the employer as I am standing at a employee point of view to have my tots, but wait wait, why should I be thinking as a employer in the first place when I am not one? So both has their rights and just the different point of view

For this time, I shall let you say I am petty and greedy.. but dun worry that will not be long for you to say me this.. maybe there be addtional names to be call? Ungrateful? but I dun give a damn now

Counting down to 6 more days to go..
Have to say.. lots of the things began to surface up when the time gets nearer.. but lucky and hopefully it will be solve all gradually.. lets pray hard together bah..

From booking/confirming the table -> arranging the table seat -> get all the clothing done -> flower & deco

To be exact .. counting down for the ROM day .. 9 days to go

Feeling : mix.. excited, anxious and worried. Lots of things to get ready before the big day, there is unhappiness in between the process as you are not able to fulfill everyone wish.. and worried what that day may happen very unexpectedly..
Of cos there is happiness cos i know.. I be joining the xinfu column to be happily married.. at the least for the moment now..

**changing from Ms Lin to Mrs Lim in 9 days**