Just had a very full and complete steamboat with Vic.. the new found friends and we chat alot at the steamboat dinner.. it is not the food we mind but the topic and enjoyment of each other companion that is very much enjoyable.. dunno why just out of the blue I came here to blog.. also to wait for my dear call.. anyway I guess I will be asleep before he come back.. (but got to wait for my stomach to digest the food)

Found quite a fewbacklog photos that I have yet to upload and blog.. cos this is xinfu and happiness.. just like the 'mouse' Dear dear had bought for me.. DORAEMON k.. so cute.. brought to office to use.. share the pic and a closer look of how it look like..

My table with the mouse..

A closer look of it.. it has blue light ok..

For the past 25 years in my life, I have never step into Palau Ubin before and so when office bring up to go there for cycle and seafood dinner crave me alot esp. recently been always eating crab crab crab.. haha.. and so there we go 4 couple to Palau Ubin.. the unknow island to gers and I was trying to act cool with my sunglass at home camwhoring.. wahaha..

A less than 20 mins ride will get you to the island which FYI does not need passport k.. so no need mama or papa permission you be able to go Palau Ubin.. the outskirt of Singapore place which I should say.. most of us..Singaporean child never get to live and try .. Kampong Life..

Here you go.. Palau ubin.. ahem.. we simply like a tourist to a unknown place and take down the message ' WELCOME TO PALAU UBIN' indeed mountain tortise..

The most magnificent place I love most is the high top tower where we climb at least 4 storey high to view the scenery from top down.. even those *ahem* who is scare of height also went up..

Sea view when the tide subsides..

Him.. my love..

And me of cos.. this the taken from a high place k..

We actually risk our life to go up as before you climb up the stair it state maximum load 20 pax.. and do you know while we are on the top , there is other few more batches of ppl.. load by load climb up and up to the highest level with us which we counted.. 18 pax.. the top was like shaking when the wind blow and kinda scary.. we took a group photos and quickly run down ..

It is a bliss I am still here to blog.. wahhaa

Lastly .. ending my blog and goes to sleep with my act cute plus act coolz photos..nightz

女子无才便是德

Well said the lord that this sentance could be the most classic and closer to what I am thinking recently already, as how many guys in this world are willing their the other partner earn more and much cleverer than them..

Woman to them should be once announce "I Am Pregnant" , you will have to start to plan to stay home take care of children (but not to forget to claim finish your maternity leave first.. haha)

All man would prefer their wife to take care of their kids and stay home to 相夫叫子, never be the opposite.. or maybe to start working again when your kids get older.. it will always be the woman to give up her work for the kids not the man.. why???

Kids belong to both of the party, but why just the woman have to take care and not the guys.. not here to debate cos this is blog.. not debating centre..

But guess 我也逃不过这个命运

Study might have to come to a halt.. or even give up since it does not show any purpose at all..

A simple job for me to work and earn my shopping money should be the way it is..

婚前婚后

到底是不是因该接受改变？

我相信我爱的都是一直以来的那个你， 从来都没变过， 可是。。 近来好像不再是那样了。。

可能是婚后的我因该多加体谅， 多加支持你。。 我都在尽力， 难道你都没看到？

到底我们的结婚是对还是错？我们还不够了解对方吗？

我真的能是一个好妻子吗？

STRESS

As what my header had said it all, I am so stress now.. yesterday was damn happy I am able to study Degree and within 18 months the course will be complete and with only each term I need to attend 20 hours continuously for every 3 months and left with self study..

But guess everything might need to come into a halt.. things are always goes not on your way of what you want.. unless you are willing to give up lots of thing in life that you have in plan.. no more good meals, no more luxury, no more enjoyment..

House of Seafood - 螃蟹之家

Yum yum.. Finally had my favourite Black Pepper Crab on Saturday.. muacks thank you Dear dear for treating me .. Order a plate of Hong Kong Noodle and Black pepper crab only.. but the portion is big so more than enough for us to eat and within our budget $55.00

Compare the last time we have white pepper crab at No Sign Board and here.. I feel I prefer House of Seafood as the crab meat is more firm and sweet.. Oh ~~ looking forward my next stop to try out Crab Beehoon at AMK.

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A total enjoyment with Dear dear over the weekend.. Trust me.. I am trying hard to change and control my temper too.. and indeed over the weekend proven I can do it..

Saturday went to Kaplan early in the morning to find out more on Dear degree course and well.. guess all school only recongnise their own school Dip. which in turn Dear dear have to re-course again on Kaplan Dip and then Degree.. 2 and a 1/2 years to go.. which actually just as our own planning to. Now is save save save period, must control our own shopping and save for everything that is to come after 2 years..

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Work Hard and JIA YOU

Wishlist for 2008

1) Samsung Onmia HP

Ok consider I am flickle minded ppl, first is SE phone then is Viewty then now this.. well though already quite tired of using Samsung phone.. but after testing out this phone.. I find that I like this best.. the combine of lots of new function that enables me to explore and use more..

Anyway gonna wait till Dec then I can upgrade/change my phone.. just 2 more months.. I will sure fetch this phone home..

Also.. haha hopefully the price will have further reduction.. Kinda steep still SGD798 with my current contract.




A PMS sidetrack.. it all happen yesterday where I just keep throwing my temper to Chris.. I know I am in the wrong but I just cannot help and I am really sorry about it.. Though sorry might not compensate all as.. a word of sorry might not solve or heal the hurt I keep raising my voice to him.. Recently I feel it has seem to be getting from bad to worse.. I should not have done those in the first place.. where have all the good old times sweet feeling and understanding of each other has gone too..
I should start to reflect and control more of my emotions.. Chris is my partner not my shouting/ bully partner..
Last but not least, truely sorry and my out of control emo.. I was unable to control my emotions and maybe sometime crying could cure all wonders..

Last topic I should blog on this post should consider happiness.. ^_^

Received a good news from a new know friend her BF aka now fiancé has finally propose to her.. She been jumping for joy the whole morning (thru msn) showing us her happiness.. and we do able to feel and really feel happy for her too. So they might be getting married earlier than me.. have chop a place to be her Bridesmaid.. though a bit thick-skin but i really very happy to be one.. :) hope she will not mind

Wednesday

Super tired.. Yesterday meet up with HVA HKG staff (Doris & Pauline), bring them out to orchard for a walk/ shopping and to taste our local food their favourite "Laksa"

While eating, I make a few call to old time HVA colleague who have all left the office.. like KE, LN, JT who are those few ladies we use to get along with till.. ahem let leave that part away

But I always thought I will never contact them again.. as when i pick up the phone and chose their name and when my finger goes to the call button I began to hesitate.. worrying will they give me cold shoulder?

Anyway everything was just me myself for thinking too much afterall.. I call.. the phone get thru so worry they saw unfamiliar number will reject the call.. and the hello and the voice when I know they still remember me this ah bao ger ger.. in my heart I can't help to feel warm and touching.. though we have been lost contact for almost 3 years.. the last time we saw each other was at my dad wake.. where that the least I would expect they would come cos I did not inform them at all..

So I have arrange to meet them up with our HKG colleague tomorrow, hopefully KE can make it too.. still pondering where to bring them to eat dinner man.. a headache issue.. haiz..

Then have just confirm with Weiyan this weekend to KUSU Island bai bai.. another 2 year never go place.. the last memory was to take the ferry from Clifford Pier and now all has change to the new Pier at Marina South.. looking forward to see the new Pier too..

It seem all program has been pack for this week that I began to feel my Life has becoming alive and kicking again.. it is good to have progam to do during weekend apart from those clubbing and drinking.. this at least a better outing right..

So was suggesting to Dear badminton next week.. hopefully we can make it a weekly thing too.. excerise for a better lifestyle..

Resting Weekend

Have to work on Saturday.. have been looking forward for November to stop this saturday alternate working.. weet-u-weet so happy..

But recently I have been thinking.. my recent last blog.. I have been thinking should I be blogging up that feeling and thinking on net and to let others to see.. cos I guess that might have been too straight forward..

Was watching channel 8 repeat drama " Taste of Love" there this actress that say

" Life is short, no point to keep holding on those unhappiness and continue to stay unhappy, it would rather to let it go and stay happy to enjoy life.. "

Is she right??

It is all 50 cents Coffee Bean fault

Coffee Bean is celebrating their birthday month so for the month of October every Wednesday they have different promotion going on. Yesterday was the first promo which they are selling their daily brew coffee at 50 cents only.. And I tell you, it is in regular size ok!
We had it after lunch which I manage to almost finish the coffee before I off work and raise my white flag I cannot drink anymore. But not to that I know, I was unable to fall asleep last night.. it could be the drama fault too, as the doggie and the kitty is so cute in the show.. Finally I manage to get into sleep at almost 11 while Dear dear is still playing with his bros. I could not sleep well, keep waking up in the middle of the night and thinking it is almost time to wake up and so did not wanna to fall into deep sleep, but actually there is still a long way to go loh.. omg

So lesson learn, never drink so much coffee after lunch and no cute/exciting show before sleep. haha I was just joking.

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Prepare for a long blog today as I am still very awake from the coffee yesterday.. wahaha and hopefully to night I am able to sleep like erm.. a pig? bleh

Recently there is a close friend of mine quite sick, due to kinda worried for her, out of concern it is still those regular said sentence like
"Please do go see a doctor"
"Please do a check, as it could be a signal of problem"

Maybe it could be due to recent the relationship gets kind of tense between both of us and it led to my own feeling and thinking of what her reply is implicating like
"I know, (knowing what to do with my ownself, does not need your care)"
"I will see how later (please stop your nagging nonsence)"

But it is all my own thinking but whoever is in my position may think in this way too.. anyway from now on,
I will just show care for those who appreciate it
Concern to those who needs it and will not reject it as rubbish

Sometime slience is a better escape than to keep talking cos people will just think
"Please do not put your concept into mine"

Well end of ranting.. and maybe end of all.. it could be just true that you gain a new best friend will turn to lose another friend.
or it may just be
My wrong to not to listen to what others have said before and introduce jobs to people
My wrong has start from the start of her first job cos I have been "manupilate" her from the past to present which it should be time to stop
Things have change , thinking will grow and change too, feeling does change too
but hopefully it is to the best.. not to the worst
God Bless
To me, I use to think friendship is always the first in line in my life which Dear dear always complain about that.. but now.. it does not seem to be that way anyway.. blame it on my naive.. Dear dear is the one who will company me till the end of my life ends.. Friends is the additional salt and pepper into my life.. I should have treasure Dear dear more..

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Talking back to the recent economy I have overhear from others "expert", recent complain on the increase of PUB bill.. which made me pondering too.. is it when there a start of company began to increase all others will just follows without thinking is it reasonable? As what I have observe, the petrol in all station seem to be dropping price and papers do state that the oil per barrel is US120 - US100 and yet there are some expertise estimating the oil be increasing to US150 per barrel. Eh US dollars is increasingly higher and hopefully back to the past standard.. then why are there giving this kind of estimation. Is it fair to increase so much and many times within a year? What I heard during my lunch time was everyone complaining on the hikes of expenses.. which there is nothing we can do and just bear with it..

Life is hard already, now it is getting more harder to live with it

Nothing much.. just wanna post a quote said by 何妈 in 溏心风暴之家好月圆 drama..


"人在做天在看"

No matter what things we are doing or trying to hide.. there is just still ways that the truth will shown out by itself.

My hectic weekend..
As per just my topic.. it is a hectic weekend..
Saturday night out of the blue i request that I shall drive home this time .. erm for about after 3 years not touch any car.. it was a dangerous trip back home.. well all the while Dear is sternly say this few sentence
1) look in front
2) you going off track
3) head no need to turn to see mirror

It is getting me off the hey-wire and keep telling him off.. I know, I got see..
Even back to home carpark Dear still give off chance and keep nag nag nag.. not a word to praise me since I have stop driving for.. erm.. 3 years..

Sunday more happening leh..
my greatest enemy Cockroach is finally destroy by my sis and dear dear.. but it is quite gross to take pics ahem.. so i rather not to show.. but well SHELIDTOX ROCKS.. haha though it is quite expensive but it proves their worths of money as said by my dear..
Kitchen is now free from roachs.. and my room is free from dust too.. (but why dear dear is running a flu today?)

Here to blog again.. including uploading that night wedding dinner photos taken 1 shot with my dear.. have to comment.. he look handsome and smart with that kind of dressing.. but omg.. how can I like that praise him.. he will soon get proud of it..

Handsome bah..
The owner of the photo must be smiling while reading it.. buey tahan..

Must be wondering too this few days where I have been bah.. not online on MSN.. been busy entertaining guests from Taiwan..

Not just that.. for the first time.. TVL colleagues went clubbing together..